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Danny Buchanan
Danny Buchanan, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Toned
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Amber-Green
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Bear
Relationship: Waiting for the Right One
Education: Some High School
Bio: Veggie enthusiast and home cook. Let’s try new recipes together.
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Mark Finley
Mark Finley, 26 Online: This week
Body Type: Plus-Size
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Olive
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Top
Relationship: Looking for a Deep Connection
Education: Some High School
Bio: Science geek and trivia buff. Let’s dive into a deep conversation.
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Thomas Ballard
Thomas Ballard, 26 Online: Recently
Body Type: Full-Figured
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Silver Fox
Relationship: Hoping to Find "The One"
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Tattoo lover and artist. Looking for someone to ink my heart.
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Anthony Townsend
Anthony Townsend, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 6′1″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Top
Relationship: Looking for Long-Term
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Mountain climber and adventurer. Let’s reach new heights together.
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Treyvon Wyatt
Treyvon Wyatt, 29 Online: Today
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Only on Special Occasions
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Bottom
Relationship: Friends with Benefits
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Designer and minimalist. Looking for someone to share a simple and meaningful life with.
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Darryl Roth
Darryl Roth, 26 Online: Recently
Body Type: Tall
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Emerald
Drinking: Open to Drinking
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Daddy
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Some High School
Bio: World traveler and backpacker. Seeking someone to explore the world with.
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Damion Russo
Damion Russo, 24 Online: Recently
Body Type: Soft-Feminine
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Teal
Drinking: Only on Special Occasions
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Muscle Bear
Relationship: Seeing What's Out There
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Actor and theatre enthusiast. Let’s create some drama—together.
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Desmond Daugherty
Desmond Daugherty, 24 Online: Today
Body Type: Slender & Tall
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Dark Green
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Femme
Relationship: Looking for Long-Term
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Outdoor adventurer and thrill-seeker. Looking for someone to share hikes, rock climbing, and stargazing.
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Rick Ware
Rick Ware, 24 Online: Today
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 6′1″
Eyes: Steel Blue
Drinking: Cocktail Connoisseur
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Bottom
Relationship: Hoping to Find "The One"
Education: Some College
Bio: Ballroom dancer and lover of elegance. Let’s dance our way through life.
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Estevan Villarreal
Estevan Villarreal, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Golden
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Femme
Relationship: Figuring Things Out
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Artist and creative spirit. Seeking someone who can match my passion.
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Gay singles in Des Moines, Iowa, meet and chat online with amazing people near you!

Gay Socializing Made Easy: Meet Like-Minded People Near You

Looking to expand your gay social circle but don’t know where to start? It can be tough making friends or finding a welcoming dating scene in a new city. But don't worry—Des Moines has vibrant communities ready to connect!

The Best Ways to Meet Gay People

  • Join a Gay Sports League
    • ✅ Low-pressure way to meet people
    • ✅ No athletic skills required—just show up and have fun!
    • ❌ Some leagues fill up quickly, so sign up early

    “Joining a team is one of the easiest ways to make genuine friendships while having a blast.”

  • Try LGBTQ+ Speed Dating & Matchmaking Events
    • ✅ Meet singles in a relaxed, no-pressure setting
    • ✅ Great alternative to dating apps
    • ❌ Might not be for introverts who dislike fast-paced interactions

    “Events like ‘Let’s Get Cheeky!’ offer a fun and sophisticated way to meet potential dates.”

  • Explore Gay-Friendly Bars, Cafés, & Community Centers
    • ✅ Casual setting to meet people without the ‘dating pressure’
    • ✅ Often host trivia nights, drag shows, and networking mixers

    “Dbar and Blend in Dorchester are known for their lively LGBTQ+ crowds.”

  • Use Inclusive Dating Apps
    • ✅ Match with like-minded people
    • ✅ Allows for casual dating, serious relationships, or friendships

    “Bindr is designed to be label-free, making it a great space to meet people without predefined expectations.”

Success Stories

Ryan moved to Des Moines for work and didn’t know anyone. After joining a gay kickball league, he found an amazing friend group—and even met his now-boyfriend at a post-game hangout!

Tips for Building Meaningful Gay Friendships & Relationships

  • Be proactive – Attend events and join LGBTQ+ groups.
  • Find your niche – Explore activities you enjoy.
  • Mix online & offline efforts – Use apps with real-world activities.
  • Don’t get discouraged – Socializing takes time!

Conclusion & Call to Action

Whether you’re looking for friends, dates, or community, there are endless ways to connect. Try out a league, sign up for an event, or download an app today!